Just sitting here thinking about what I could blog about and wanted to post something which would make an impact on someone and I came up with this. I hope after reading this you have a positive thought....
I was inspired to write about this after reading this :
Imagine the feeling of looking at the man who murdered your uncle, who cut out his organs and gave it to someone to eat- and forgiving him. Imagine being abused and taunted, and when given the chance to retaliate, instead you forgive. This was the Messenger of Allah Ta’ala (sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam), a man described as “an excellent exemplar for those who hope in Allah and the Last Day” [Quran, Chapter 33, Surat al-Ahzab, 33:21].
Many of us cannot forgive our parents or friends or spouses when they say hurtful things when they are angry. We tend to hold grudges for years, unable to forget the things people have done to us. On the one hand, we feel justified in feeling this way. After all, we are the ones wronged. On the other, bottling things up inside is unhealthy at the very least, on both a spiritual and psychological level.
The reason why Iam writing this post is because everyone goes through a time where they fall out or get hurt by someone . Forgiving someone can be very difficult however if you do not forgive ,you are wasting your life because If God can forgive someone then why can't you . Yes it's not that easy depending on the situation however instead of spending your time talking about the negativity and replaying the situation it's best to move on from it . It's about moving on from the situation and healing it.
This is good for both because you do not deserve to hold onto any grudges . You are a better person when you spread your arms and forgive . It also helps us to develop inner peace and happiness in our lives . Also there is a famous quote by Nelson Mandela "when a deep injury is done to us , we never heal until we forgive ". I seriously mark those words. Ones heart should forgive the worst and forget the bad .
Note : These images were sourced from google.
Note : These images were sourced from google.
